Do Your Best and Leave the Rest to the Universe

The Challenge of Unmet Expectations

When working with clients, it's easy to feel discouraged when outcomes don't meet expectations. We know that external factors beyond our control can influence results, but somehow, we tend to blame ourselves for unmet goals.

I recently faced this challenge and was reminded of my friend Gigit's advice: "Just do your due diligence and leave the rest to the universe." At the time, it didn't make much sense, as my strategic approach usually yielded good results. But when things didn't work out as expected, the weight of disappointment was heavy.

Wisdom from friends

Surprisingly, during a conversation with another friend, Joyjoy, she offered similar wisdom: "Do your work and no matter the outcome, that's no longer your concern." Hearing the same message twice felt like a sign from the universe that things happen on their own accord, whether favorable or not.

So, how can we lessen the guilt when we don't meet desired outcomes?

• Believe that everything happens for a reason. You either earn or learn from the experience, and both are valuable.

• Accept that things change. What worked before may not work now. See challenges as opportunities to adapt, learn, and grow.

• Recognize that you won't be everyone's cup of tea. We all have preferences, and that's perfectly okay. This diversity is what makes our world beautiful.

Ending Thought:

Life is a journey filled with unexpected twists and turns. Sometimes, despite our best efforts, things don't go as planned. But by embracing the philosophy of doing our best and letting go of the rest, we can navigate these challenges with grace and resilience. Remember, it's not about controlling every outcome, but about finding peace in the process and trusting that the universe has a plan for us, even when we can't see it.